Journey On: Through This Shadowed Valley (November 2020)

 

Chronic illness, chronic chaos...
We all have a valley to walk in our lifetime, yet what if that shadowed valley never ends?
Living with a chronic condition--be it chronic pain, fibromyalgia, CRPS, Lyme, MS, lupus, RA, or any other--forces us into a new normal. What do we do when our illness steals so much from us?

This is the question I posed to an online fellowship group. In response, I received 29 verses to help guide me through my "low time".

Journey On is my journal, my journey. It chronicles my ups and downs, my doubts, my praises, and my dreams. I'm giving you--my readers--an inside look at being newly diagnosed with a chronic condition and chronic pain. It's my hope that you find that you aren't alone in the fight as you read my words and the words of six other people who have learned to live with their chronic conditions.

Our illness may be a thief, but we can still live life to its fullest!
I invite you to travel with me in Journey On: Through This Shadowed Valley. Together we thrive!

 

 

Praise for Journey On: Through This Shadowed Valley

 

"The blunt honesty that Daphne reveals as she struggles with fibromyalgia provides hope to those who deal with lifelong chronic pain. Her relationship with Jesus during the worst of times shows through our weakness Jesus shows his strength. If we lay our sorrows before Christ He will life them from our shoulders just as He promised when He said 'My yoke is easy and My burden is light' (Matthew 11:30). Daphne's journey gives hope to those who believe they have no hope and that hope is found in Jesus."

Ann Allen, author of Out of Darkness

"Journey On: Through This Shadowed Valley by Daphne Self paints a picture of chronic illness. The book's daily descriptions of pain and loss are woven into the author's strong faith, which sees her through the valleys of her disease. The book will help others who have chronic illnesses feel less alone as it educates all to the depth of suffering and daily struggles of those with chronic diseases."

Gail Pallotta, a Reader's Favorite Award Winner and TopShelf 2020 Nominee

 

"Daphne Self's Journey On: Through This Shadowed Valley is an illuminating account of the daily struggles faced by fibromyalgia and chronic pain patients. The author finds consolation in her Christian faith, but this is a must-read for anyone with FMS who feels lost, confused and alone; or for their family members or friends. Helpful references are included where to seek more information. Fibromyalgia is a genuine disease, which recent evidence is confirming, and this 'real and raw' book reveals its devastating effects on the sufferer."

Ronda L. Wells, M.D.

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Alabama Days: A Southern Saga (June 16, 2020)

How could a loving God hurt so many people?

Paramedic Scott Wilson believes he can chase death away, but his spirit is shattered when people he loves are taken from him. As a paramedic, Scott see every day the pain that people suffer, and he wants no part of a God that would allow bad things to happen to good people. As a result, he hides behind his work and addiction to ease the pain within his soul.

But once newspaper reporter Angela Mabry, and her son, Max, move into town, Scott can't help but notice the feisty redhead. Angela is determined to uncover the town's seedy underbelly and reveal the strange coincidences of so many car accidents at one location.

When a prominent city official dies in a car wreck, Scott and Angela find themselves entangled in a web of intrigue and deception.

Together they search for the truth and discover that not all is what it seems.

Praise for Alabama Days:

"Alabama Days carries the reader through intrigue, danger, and romance. With writing that sparkles, characters that come alive, and relationships develop, both socially and spiritually. Who is to be trusted? What are the consequences of stealing an unknown medication, of finding a flash drive that someone wants destroyed? These mysteries will keep you in Alabama till all is resolved."

~Eleanor Gustafson, author of An Unpresentable Glory and Dynamo

"Daphne takes small-town intrigue, tosses in romance and a strong thread of redemption, and creates a story romantic suspense readers will thoroughly enjoy. A definite heart-warming--and pulse-pounding--read."

~Susan Tuttle, author of At First Glance

"A compelling story of small-town corruption and unstoppable romance. Alabama Days entertains while also presenting readers with the hope of the Gospel."

~Heather Norman Smith, author of Grace & Lavender

"Blockbuster action and a heartwarming story filled with characters who are realistic and well crafted. Recommend Daphne Self for a story that last beyond 'The End'."

~Lucy Thompson, author of Mail Order Surprise, A Cowboy's Dare, and "Waltzing Matilda" of The Captive Brides Collection

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The Adventures of Wilhelmina: The Case of the Missing Firehouse Dog (Ambassador International March 2019)

Majesty, the firehouse dog, is missing.

Willie and Jax are on the case to discover who is the dognapping culprit. Could it be their neighbor, Mr. Applebee? Or maybe it is Ms. Thornton?

Join the Pintail Duo, Wilhelmina van der Coup and Jackson Barnaby, as they follow the clues to rescue Majesty in The Case of the Missing Firehouse Dog.


Purchase now through online retailers or your local bookstores.

Praise for The Case of the Missing Firehouse Dog:

"Love The Case of the Missing Firehouse Dog! Delightful!"

~John Kilpatrick, retired South Panola high school English teacher

"A lovely children's book about a wonderful character named Wilhelmina! A child detective who loves mysteries. If your child enjoys investigating dilemmas around your house, your child will love this entertaining book!! A must buy (or read) children's book."

~Anita Holland Smith, third grade teacher for 32 years

"Look out, Encyclopedia Brown! Here comes Willie and Jax, ready to solve your neighborhood crime--no matter how big or small! This delightful book will have your children giggling and sleuthing as Willie and Jax, a.k.a. the Pintail Duo, solve the case of the missing firefighter dog. Daphne Self also beautifully weaves the truth of God's Word into the lessons learned by the two young detectives, reminding children that God's commands are just as real and necessary for us today. Well done, Daphne!"

~Katie Cruice Smith, author of Why Did You Choose Me?

"Kids will relate to the humorous tale of friends, amateur sleuths, as they try to find the dognapper. Surprise ending! I highly recommend this book."

~Linda Wood Rondeau, author of The Fifteenth Article and Miracle of Maple Street

 

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30 Days: A Devotional Memoir (Ambassador International 2013)

Do you desire to no longer be alone? Do you yearn for understanding and hope? Do you wish for a closer walk with Jesus?

When a relationship ends, whether through divorce or death, it leaves us with heartache and sadness. Fear of loneliness overwhelms our soul. Anger at God consumes us. We are suddenly thrust into unknown territory, lost and bewildered.

Psalm 147:3 "He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds." 30 Days: A Devotional Memoir brings our deeply moving stories to strengthen your walk and bring you closer to Christ. Author D.M. Webb shares her three year spiritual journey with a collection of thirty devotions designed to reach out and uplift those who have endured the turbulent emotions that come with divorce, widowhood, and single parenting. Reach out, place your hand in His, and begin your journey today.

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Mississippi Nights: A Southern Saga (January 2012)

Two brothers, one death--the bond of brotherhood faces its greatest challenge against resentment and guilt.

Can the love between two brothers eventually win against pain and guilt? When firefighter David Boyette's fiance perishes in a car fire, he blames his brother, Sgt. Jeremy Boyette, for her death. Three years later, David returns home with a dark and devastating secret. With the help of family, a woman's love, and a small child's devotion, can David overcome insurmountable odds as he and Jeremy face the bitterness that enslaves him?

Together the brothers must decide if the bond of brotherhood is stronger than resentment and hate.

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When You Write for One

As a Christian author you are more than just an author who is a Christian, you are a Christian who writes. And as a Christian our number one goal is to honor Christ in all things.

By all things I mean: words, language, scenes, message, and tone. The world has a way of encroaching into ours lives and we must be ever diligent.

One way that the world sinks its talons into us is by making money the number one goal. Yes, making money is a plus. Money must be made to ensure a successful business and to build a profitable future; but when we make money our goal, we lose.

There are authors who rake in the royalties and hit the bestsellers list--and that's quite nice--but that's a rarity. Being an author is not always profitable, but you can make it rewarding.

Write for Christ. Give in love. Choose to help others.

What I mean by "give in love" and "choose to help others" is this: choose a charity--one that will honor Christ--and vow to donate a percentage to that charity.



Here are two examples:
Chad Pettit, author of Fate of the Watchman and upcoming book Fate of the Redeemed, has vowed to give fifty percent (50%) of his royalties from Fate of the Watchman to Voice of the Martyrs. VoM is a Christian organization who helps the persecuted and shares the Gospel worldwide, no matter how dangerous.

It's done for God's Glory.

Daphne Self (me), author of The Adventures of Wilhelmina: The Case of the Missing Firehouse Dog, has vowed to donate thirty percent (30%) of her royalties from The Adventures of Wilhelmina series to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital and other various children's hospitals. St. Jude is a hospital that helps children worldwide battle and treat cancer--no matter race, social status, religion, or ethnicity. Even if the parents cannot pay, they are there to help in many ways.

It's done for God's Glory. 

When an author decides to put God first and chooses to help, then he/she is successful. Success isn't measured in money--it's measured by love. Your book will be the one to reach those who needed to hear and read that message. Your book has a purpose.

So I challenge you:

• Write for Christ, your Audience of One
• Choose a charity to support (just make sure that charity aligns with God's word)

Trust me, when you put Jesus first in all things, amazing things will happen.

Here are some links to some charities and Christian organizations:
Voice of the Martyrs
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
Samaritan's Purse
Love Worth Finding
In Touch Ministries
Gideons International
American Family Association
Air1 Radio
KLove Radio
Pure Flix

John 16:33

John 16:33 is a verse that many people turn to for comfort and to fortify their soul.
Just recently though, I found a newer meaning to this verse. It wasn't a verse I sought; it wasn't a verse that I was led to; it wasn't a verse that was sent to me.

It was only after what happened that I found this verse and a new meaning came to me. Read the last part: "I have overcome the world." The world.... not a country, not the sea, not even people. But the World. And the world isn't just the planet. It is everything within it. The World.

How is that possible? It is possible because of who Jesus is. I didn't say "who Jesus was". I said "who Jesus is". He is alive!

Back to the verse and its new meaning. It started when I came across a band I used to listen to. I enjoyed this band. Not all of the songs, because being a hard rock, secular band there were some with explicit lyrics. Then there were the ones that I listened to and this was during a time of extreme emotional distress. I was alone. Not physically, but emotionally and spiritually (in my belief, that is).

I was a 31-year-old widow. Lost my husband in the line-of-duty and then two months later my father died in my arms from a massive heart attack. I had failed to save him. During this time, my mother and I grew apart. Grief will do that when there are no mentors or others there to help someone through the grief. We were alone. Our church wasn't there with us. Our extended family left us. And I struggled to balance work, raising two young sons, and dealing with all that was spiraling around me. I could not allow myself to break or fall.

Looking back it came to no surprise that I was attracted to the songs by Godsmack. They were angry. They were hard. But they were poetic and lyrical. The raspy smoothness of the lead singer caused me to gravitate to their music. I felt soothed. And it drove me down a path that led to more heartache, more helplessness, and destitution. It took years to pull myself away from all that. To pull myself away from that music.

Fast forward to last week, I came across their YouTube channel. One of those flukes in advertising while watching another video. New song? Really? New album? Interesting. Out of curiosity I clicked on it. Two songs in and I was captivated, again. But the song that spoke to me was "When Legends Rise".

For days that song played in my head. No other song could drown it out. No other song could erase the melody and words from my mind. I would wake up and in my head that song played. I would read the Bible and in my head that song played.

I could not travel that dark road again. And Godsmack would lead me down it. That is the dark part of me that is drawn to that style of music. And I wanted it. But I didn't desire it!

Even after asking people for something that was like Godsmack, there wasn't anything out there remotely similar that would erase them from my mind....until one sponsored Facebook post did. And I followed the link and watched the video. And now I have a new song in my head. And relief has been found.

So how does this tie in with the verse? The power of Jesus. He overcame the world. And all we have to do is seek Him. All we have to do is cry out, "Just give me Jesus!".

And that is what the song by Unspoken has done. Their song "Just Give Me Jesus" shows the power in Jesus' name. He erased a song from my head and replaced it with something that glorifies Him. He took a temptation and gave me freedom. He took the darkness and the anger and gave me light and happiness.

He has overcame the world, even if that world is inside someone's head. We matter to Him. And nothing is too small for Him and nothing is too large. We just need to cry out and say, "Just give me Jesus".

Just Give Me Jesus

https://www.facebook.com/unspokenmusic

Infallible God vs. fallible me

Are you like me?
Do you have financial difficulties that leave you stressed to the point of breaking?
People say they pray for you and send Bible verses to help you. Do any of these seem familiar? 

Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? (NJKV)

Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (NKJV)

1 Peter 5:7 casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. (NKJV)

Are you like me?
Do you fight against illness and depression?
People say they pray for you and send Bible verses to help you. Do any of these look familiar?

Deuteronomy 31:8 "And the LORD, He is the One who goes before you. He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you; do not fear nor be dismayed." (NKJV)

Psalm 34:17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears, And delivers them out of their troubles. (NKJV)

Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds. (NKJV)

Are you like me?
Do you find yourself in the midst of loneliness? Do you long for friendship and fellowship?
People say they pray for you and send you Bible verses to help you. Do any of these seem familiar?

Psalm 16:8 I have set the LORD always before me; Because He is at my right hand I shall not be moved. (NKJV)

Isaiah 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand. (NKJV)

Matthew 28:20b "...and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age." Amen. (NKJV)

Are you like me?
Are you a fallible human trusting in the Infallible God?
Proverbs 3:5 says "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding". (NKJV)
Psalm 73:26 reminds us that our flesh and our hearts fail, but God is the strength of our hearts, and is with us forever.

It is hard to trust and to keep going when we cannot see the end of our troubles. But God, in His infinite wisdom, has a plan for our victories and trials. We do not see or understand them, but they will be used to glorify His name and bring others to Christ.

We must remain steadfast in our faith.
Hebrews 10:23 "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful."

Things may look bleak, but we are not alone.
Our Perfect God loves His imperfect children.

Websites/Organizations/Social Media III

When we say "social media" we normally don't think about online organizations. Social media is any form of connection between individuals using a technological medium.

One of the best moves I've made in my writing career was to join an organization, a Christian organization, dedicated to improving my skills at writing, marketing, branding, platforming, etc. The benefits outweighed the cost of membership.

From online connections with other authors to Facebook groups where ideas and research can be shared, there are also the benefits of critique groups, mentors, and man other marketing opportunities. In all, the benefits are numerous.

But is reciprocal to the time and energy you invest.

Listed below are some Christian organizations that are considered greatly beneficial to all authors, regardless if you are a newbie or a seasoned writer.

• American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW)

         ~ acfw.com ~

         Membership is $65 initially, $45 annually thereafter

         Renewal levels are: Basic     $45

                                         Bronze   $70

                                         Silver     $85

                                         Gold      $10

• Christian Authors Network (CAN)

         ~ ChristianAuthorsNetwork.com ~

         Membership is $50 per year.

         There is a registration fee of $50.

• Realm Makers

        ~ realmmakers.com ~

        This is primarily the speculative tribe.

        Membership has 3 levels:

                             Basic                $40 for 1 year

                             Published         $65 for 1 year

                             Professional     $100 for 1 year 

• Inspire Christian Writers

       ~ inspirewriters.com ~ 

       Membership is $50 annually.

• WordWeavers

      ~ word-weavers.com ~

      They have 2 types of Membership:

                       For adults: $45 per year

                       For teens:  $35 per year

Join them all or join only a couple, but in the least participate in one of these organizations. The benefits will enrich your career in many ways.

Websites/Organizations/Social Media II

How do you use Facebook?

Do you have a connection with other authors, editors, writers, agents, and publishers on your personal page or do you reserve those for your (business) page?

Do you join groups and participate in them?

Do you like pages by authors, editors, writers, agents, and publishers?

How you handle Facebook determines how well you are seen by people on Facebook. The more you interact the more you will see, but it doesn't determine that you will be seen.

Facebook uses a complicated equation, some may say faulty, but it really does work for what they want it to do: to drive people to pay to boost posts.

You can work around this problem or you can pay a small amount to boost a post that can reach "UP TO" (semantics at play here) a certain number of people.

It is a decision that only you can make.

But to use Facebook as your only social media platform is akin to tying a marketing noose around your neck.

Facebook is one of many platforms to use, but should never be the main one.

If you don't have a page, start one. Use the page for announcements, share about your book and other authors' books, post links at times, post an update status about twice a week.

Use your personal profile for not just family, but serious connections with other people with whom you like to form a friendship. For example: I have many authors on my personal page. I connect with them. I comment on their posts and they on mine. And I share a lot of things that they post, too. This allows the friends of friends of friends of friends, etc. to see my name.

Eventually my name and my book will cross paths before them.

This will work for you, too.

Groups! I cannot stress enough that joining groups and spending time in them is a beneficial endeavor.

You don't have to spend a lot of time there. A pop in, pop out is enough. And you can create shortcuts on your sidebar to help you discern when a new post has arrived.

Facebook can be a great marketing tool. Not for selling books, but for bringing attention to you and your name. The more a reader or another person in the business gets to know you, the more apt they are to share and/or buy your book.

Websites/Organizations/Social Media

There are three things a successful author needs for marketing: a website, membership in organizations, and social media presence. For the next few weeks, I will talk about social media presence and why it is a good thing to have.

You’ll hear and read many authors, editors, agents, and publishers talk about the importance of a social media connection. Online connections began in the early 90’s and since then it has evolved into a mainstay within society. Long distance phone companies became a thing of the past as more and more people used cellphones and internet video calls to connect with long distance relatives; and, they did so at a much lesser cost than the phone services offered.

It is the Age of Technology. We may or may not have a dependency on it. That is determined by the person. BUT we should take advantage of social media and how it can help in our platform and marketing.

The favorite saying of most in the publishing business: Keep an ongoing presence online, even if it’s only a small post once every two days. The more you post, the more you are seen.

And this is so true. No matter what an author cannot stay in his/her Hobbit Hole. If you are INFJ or INFP, never fear. Introverts can have an online presence without exposing our vulnerability.

Today I will talk about my favorite social media site: INSTAGRAM.

Why Instagram?

Not only do I get to share photos of books, what I am reading, what I am eating (yes, even I fall into that little category), what I am writing, what I’ve seen, where I’m going, etc., I can share my favorite reads, my projects, or those odds-n-ends in life that I find captivating. The possibilities of sharing are endless. By posting on Instagram I am more than just an author; I’m seen as a person.

Using Instagram to connect with readers and other authors allows us to connect with the nonbusiness side of the industry. With the dual role of personal and business, your followers are more apt to buy your books or if you are helping to promote a fellow author, then they are more apt to buy that author’s books.

Another thing that makes Instagram fun is the ability to share memes, giveaways, and book challenges without having the post limited to a certain number of followers. If someone follows you, then they see the post.

If you aren’t on Instagram, then I encourage to start a profile today. Remember, the more you post, the more you are seen.